Oh amazing I'll give it a listen. The thought of slow dating is so far removed from what I'm used to! I have cycled from intense rejationships to peeiods of abstinence for most of my grown up life but never expected to be sjbgke for so long. Definitely feels like part of me is waking up after a long sleep. I'm interested to see how it will integrate x
Hah. Yes, the 'diet coke break'! My colleague and I joke that the ice bucket at the Sauna is the modern equivalent of the diet coke ad 😅 Imagjne the swarthy eyed man doing the ice bucket... My God it really does feel good to fancy someone again. Thank you.
Oooh it feels like a part of you is coming alive again! I had a 2,5 year sex and relationship break. Didn’t go looking for anyone. Trusted he would come to me. Friends thought I was mental (nothing knew🤣).
It’s a whole other world, sober sex. Slow dating. Taking our time. It never occurred to me I might meet someone who, like me, might not want to have sex on the first date (I didn’t know there was such a thing).
If you haven’t listened to my sex ban podcast, give it a whirl. We did a couple of recent follow ups too about what came after.
“but I have always been highly aware of an innate 'sexiness' something which when younger, I seemed able to switch on, a power calling certain types of men towards me. A power I could manipulate to a point but which ultimately landed me in many uncomfortable situations with men that I couldn't get myself out of.” - this was me, I unfortunately looked and acted older for my age too (forced to be an adult young). Without the darkness, there’s so much fun in that power and energy.
Thank you 🙏 yes hot and definitely a bit of a wrong 'un! But I can feel the fun of it for once which is great. There are so many layers to being forced to grow up too soon aren't there? I am only really beginning to unpick this now. The power and the vulnerability and sheer confusion of it all.
Yeyyyyyy to the fun of it! I don’t know if you feel the same about your endo but it can take the fun out of sexiness or sex. I think someone said above but I’ve got real coke advert vibes and I’m all for it 😆😍
I’m only just starting to really unpick the nitty gritty of it. Feels like there are so many layers to life!
Oh amazing I'll give it a listen. The thought of slow dating is so far removed from what I'm used to! I have cycled from intense rejationships to peeiods of abstinence for most of my grown up life but never expected to be sjbgke for so long. Definitely feels like part of me is waking up after a long sleep. I'm interested to see how it will integrate x
Soooo many layers! ❤️❤️
Endo definitely makes sex harder. I am quite terrified of having sex again since my endo seems to flare so much more now x
oh I love the honesty of this and felt the frisson over the screen! Diet Coke break :-) Always fun to have someone to fancy, too!
Hah. Yes, the 'diet coke break'! My colleague and I joke that the ice bucket at the Sauna is the modern equivalent of the diet coke ad 😅 Imagjne the swarthy eyed man doing the ice bucket... My God it really does feel good to fancy someone again. Thank you.
Oooh it feels like a part of you is coming alive again! I had a 2,5 year sex and relationship break. Didn’t go looking for anyone. Trusted he would come to me. Friends thought I was mental (nothing knew🤣).
It’s a whole other world, sober sex. Slow dating. Taking our time. It never occurred to me I might meet someone who, like me, might not want to have sex on the first date (I didn’t know there was such a thing).
If you haven’t listened to my sex ban podcast, give it a whirl. We did a couple of recent follow ups too about what came after.
https://www.hannahharvey.uk/podcasts/happily-ever-after-with-hannah-harvey/episodes/2148083203
This guy sounds hot!!
“but I have always been highly aware of an innate 'sexiness' something which when younger, I seemed able to switch on, a power calling certain types of men towards me. A power I could manipulate to a point but which ultimately landed me in many uncomfortable situations with men that I couldn't get myself out of.” - this was me, I unfortunately looked and acted older for my age too (forced to be an adult young). Without the darkness, there’s so much fun in that power and energy.
Loving your writing ✍️
Thank you 🙏 yes hot and definitely a bit of a wrong 'un! But I can feel the fun of it for once which is great. There are so many layers to being forced to grow up too soon aren't there? I am only really beginning to unpick this now. The power and the vulnerability and sheer confusion of it all.
Yeyyyyyy to the fun of it! I don’t know if you feel the same about your endo but it can take the fun out of sexiness or sex. I think someone said above but I’ve got real coke advert vibes and I’m all for it 😆😍
I’m only just starting to really unpick the nitty gritty of it. Feels like there are so many layers to life!